Reasons for Divorce Rates Spiking Between Fifth and 10th Years of Marriage
Ministry of Social and Family DevelopmentSpeakers
Summary
This question concerns the reasons behind divorce rates spiking between the fifth and 10th years of marriage and the measures to support affected couples, raised by Mr Vikram Nair. Minister for Social and Family Development Masagos Zulkifli B M M noted that heightened vulnerability arises from differing expectations on family life and parenting, fertility issues, emotional disconnection, and unresolved early conflicts resurfacing. He shared that the Government uses a holistic approach across life stages, starting with upstream marriage preparation programmes to build a lasting foundation. Furthermore, ongoing support includes marriage enrichment programmes to strengthen spousal relationships as well as programmes to support parenthood. Couples facing marital stress can also access online resources via the Family Assist portal and receive professional marital and family counselling through the Strengthening Families Programme.
Transcript
61 Mr Vikram Nair asked the Minister for Social and Family Development in light of the findings in the Family Trends Report 2026 (a) what are the reasons for divorce rates to spike between the fifth and 10th years of marriage; (b) whether any steps can be taken to support couples in this phase of their marriage.
Mr Masagos Zulkifli B M M: Marriages may break down for a range of reasons. Data suggest that marriages tend to face heightened vulnerability between the fifth and 10th year. Factors may include differing expectations about family life and parenting, fertility issues and loss of emotional connection. Unresolved conflicts in the early years may surface and place further strain on the marital relationship.
The Government takes a holistic approach to strengthening marriages across life stages. This starts with upstream support to build a strong foundation that will last, such as through marriage preparation programmes before and within the early years. As the marriage evolves, there are marriage enrichment programmes to strengthen spousal relationships and programmes to support parenthood.
Those facing marital stress at any point may make use of online resources through the Family Assist portal and professional marital and family counselling under the Strengthening Families Programme.
The Government is committed to supporting families in building strong and resilient marriages. We encourage couples to invest time in building their marriages and seek help early if challenges arise.